Various rituals are widely observed in the Muslim community during marriage. Islam has nothing to do with those rituals. Therefore, such rituals should be avoided.
- Tying a thalli - tying a karugamani
- Performing aarti
- Making a wedding vow
- Congratulating the groom after the wedding
- Men and women mocking the bride and groom
- Planting a banana tree
- Groom's procession
- Dancing, singing, and holding concerts
Asking for a bride's family on several occasions after the wedding in the name of "Sir Vedas".
Forcing the bride's family to make and wear jewelry for the first child.
Putting the cost of the first birth on the head of the bride's family.
Asking for parties from the bride's family on various occasions under various pretexts.
These atrocities copied from other religions should definitely be avoided.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Whoever follows another religion or culture is one of them. Narrated by Abu Dawud 3512
Gifts are gifts
It is permissible in Islam to receive gifts from relatives and friends during marriages and other occasions.
If a person receives something good from his brothers without asking for it or expecting it, he should accept it without refusing it. For it is a blessing from Allah, the Most High. Narrated by Khalid bin Adi (may Allah be pleased with him).
Narrated by Bukhari 1380, 6630
This hadith states that gifts should not be refused.
Fake gifts, such as moi and salami, should definitely be avoided. Moi is based on the idea that something is given to you in return.
When you give something and expect it to be returned, it is not a gift.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “He who gives a gift and expects it back is like one who vomits and then eats it again.”
Narrated by: Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him)
Narrated by: Bukhari 1490, 2589, 2621, 2623, 3003, 6975
These hateful fake gifts should be avoided.