Islam prescribes specific guidelines for how a marriage should be conducted. The Islamic approach to marriage is distinct from the practices of others; it is revolutionary, easy to implement, and economical. A marriage qualifies as truly Islamic only when these guidelines are observed. Let us examine these guidelines.
When selecting a bride, the primary consideration should be her moral character and good nature. Islam teaches that factors such as wealth, lineage, or physical beauty should not be the main criteria.
Similarly, when selecting a groom, women should prioritize the man's good character.
"Women are married for four reasons: their wealth, their beauty, their lineage, and their good character. You should choose the one with good character and attain success," said the Prophet (peace be upon him). Narrated by Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him). Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 5090.